people change like how seasons change too .
seasons change in every 3 months but humans can change in as fast as 3 seconds .
some people show their true self slowly ,
or they don't even know that they're actually changing as time passes .
just like those statements they made .
just like those statements they made .
some words that people said are meant for 'just saying' , or because that person is happy and made a sentence of promise or anything that caused another party to trust and fall for it .
what's worst that that person wont remember that he/she made that sentence that another party actually fell for and believed in .
words are cheap .
people always say they'll accept the fact that who you are and your flaws no matter what because they love you .
but when shits arrived , it's a different thing , it's either 'they had enough of accepting' , 'they found someone else that has something you have live without' , 'the love ain't strong enough' .
think before making a statement .
think before making someone fall you for .
think before anything you do and not be reckless .
if you can't keep your words , save your saliva and not say .
it isn't that hard , is it ?
say what you can do ,
not backing out when you can't do it .
you people don't know how a statement from someone we love meant to us .
provided that it's good or bad ,
it's still an impact to our lives .
if it's bad like saying 'this colour doesn't suit you' / 'this outfit isn't nice' / 'you don't give in because you don't love me' / 'you have high ego' ,
we try to avoid that colour that outfit ,
we start to give in once/twice/many times ,
but you'll just take it for granted and leave .
it's like , once you gave in you're no longer precious and people will just take it for granted because you people gave in A LOT in the past , and it's a pay back time .
not saying that you shouldn't give in , but.. don't let people take them for granted .
if it's good like 'i love you forever' / 'i'm not like the others' /'it's gonna be different' / 'i'm afraid to lose you' ,
we trust , we fall for those words , we stick till the end .
because of whatever you said that made you 'the one' to us .
but it always turn out to be 'the same' .
sooner or later , you all will still leave .
our efforts we made to change for you ,
our prides we threw away for you ,
we made ourselves looking like a fool for you .
have you seen it ? no .
probably because it's not enough for you to see as you always take it for granted and never see it yourself how much you actually change us .
from a person with pride to a little fool .
beware of the statement you made to someone who loves you .
it's either it's gonna make that someone hurt like a bitch and it's gonna make that someone fall for you like no one ever did .
can't keep yours words ? just shut up .
it's better than giving people hope that you're the one .
can't keep your promises ? don't make .
it's better than wasting your time making the promises and can't keep it and saying sorry .
it isn't hard to keep quiet .
//don't make promises when you're happy , don't make decisions when you're angry//
But at the end of the day we still fell in love with the words don't we? Understand how you feel but don't forsake this life of yours okay? Follow your heart and always listen to your mind no matter what. :-)
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